What the Hell Are We Looking For?

In my opinion:

Without our mothers we would not be here, women are the closes to God as a creator because we give life. Men are the image of God, they are the only human source for love. We learn how to love from men as the woman is the first teacher to the child. How do women love? Find out how they have been loved and if circumstances lead them not to be loved has she learned better love from you? Are you giving it to her?


A woman's body is built to receive life as a man is built to give life. In turn, we as women nurture a seed and give back what we have received in human form.


Who is the giver of an woman's seed source? Why him? Old are young don't curse your seeds because God had a purpose for you and I....look at all we've overcome. We proved we were fighters from conception. We made it! Never stop at seeking out your true purpose smashing every idea, and value placed on you. Who are you? Who is worthy of the journeying with you to find that out? And why are you here? Those questions may never be answered but our lives are not our own.


We are givers, if we forget this we will find it hard to understand how to enter in the lives of people. Our plan should never be how to get in and out because life as we know it is TIME based and we are not the deciders of how and when.


Clearly our bodies being built the way they are says much about our roles as man and woman, as a people. A woman can't reach her fullest potential without the love of a man. Any woman who tells you they can is in denial and is truly not honest with themselves. A man seeking success has a greater chance at lasting and building a name for himself when he has gained the respect and honor beyond his father's name. It takes a woman to nurture his ego, respecting his passions and make him feel he is greater than life alone to accomplish this.


We all have a part to play in order for growth to take place. We cannot expect to reap where we have not sown. Don't expect the results without giving and or adding where you expect to receive and or reap. Cognitive dissonance comes from high expectations on those who's values and attitudes don't line up with their actions (caused by a battled with internal-self and the self we present to the world).


Our tools and roles have reversed a bit and it's scary to think of evolution and how one may try to re-define it's own nature to prove a point! Playing your role doesn't make you weak, it makes you a needed source for life to continue. Our growth as a people has been stunted by twisted, dated values that have not been re-evaluated. What will it take to turn the page completely from the old to the new?


The important thing is as we have come in to our own discovering who we are and who we are not, we must then present that to the world and not hide ourselves. Re-molding an old frame yet our foundation is intact. We must know what our foundation is built on and can you, your seeds, (future seeds), and seed source with stand a new chapter based those values and beliefs that worked once upon a time. Be real, truncate the necessary and move onward.


Muah!

Cecilia Ada~


P.S. Leading by example will teach your future seed sources to channel all you've taught them into coping tools to navigate life easier than the tools you were given to cope with. Making them realize their roles and knowing how powerful they are based on what they can potentially gain without the vague, bias ideas we've been taught due to lack of awareness.

Strengthening how we cope makes life bareable and not so noisy. To change a thing I must first change me.